I went on a 1st date with my husband…
and it was amazing.
Ok, so here is the story. I was sitting one afternoon thinking of something fun that Chris and I could do to be creative with our date night. Chris and I have been together for 10 years, not married that long, but together so it has been a long time since we have been on a first date. I thought it would be fun to feel the pressure and the excitement that comes along with the first date. It was so special. We really committed to the role and had a blast.
Once we decided that we were going to do this, Chris took the initiative. He called me randomly one day and totally asked me out. When I realized that this was happening I got warm all over and started sweating. It was hilarious. I really allowed myself to believe we did not know each other.
So we set the date and I waited anxiously for the night. I got all dressed up in something fun and sassy and he picked up at the door smelling like a tall, dark, and handsome movie star. We both walked to his car blushing and with a strange sense of adrenaline. The conversation in the car on the way to dinner was so fun. Being that it was the 1st date we tried not to have any awkward silences. We just let our conversation guide us and it was easy. I found myself so curious with the life that he lives.
He took me to Benihana’s in Anaheim, which is a great place for a date because it is entertaining and delicious, but slightly awkward because you sit at the same table with 6 other people. We ate and had great conversation. Every now and then our feet would touch or his leg would touch mine and again it was just like it was 10 years ago, totally thrilling.
The car ride home was great and the goodnight kiss was too :
I totally recommend this experience. It can be awkward and weird if you do not completely commit to the role. But if you can , it will be amazing. I love my husband deeply and this experience allowed me to enter back into that excitement of falling in love in love with him. I am so thankful that Chris asked me out 10 years ago. He is my best friend and soul mate and I feel very fortunate to share my life with him.
Thank you, Chris for one hot night!!!
kruclan said,
June 27, 2008 at 11:00 am
so glad to hear the date was a success. i think you should definitely take things to the next level with this guy.